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Barbara Hill's avatar

Anne Sexton gave a reading at my college in the 70's. She was a presence unlike anyone I'd encountered with her bright lipstick and her dark hair. A bold woman poet who seemed so confidant. This was the same year we lost her. This poem reflects the arc of her too short life.

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Corie Feiner's avatar

Oh my gosh, you saw her live? Wow. I want to hear more!

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Barbara Hill's avatar

Corie, i did. I wrote a longer response but it failed to post.

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Corie Feiner's avatar

Shall I look for it?

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Barbara Hill's avatar

Gone! I'll try again. She a deep voice and i think she smoked a cigarette. She read slowly and looked at us. She was dressed and made up beautifully, glamour in the days of hippie grunge.

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Barbara Hill's avatar

She was also terrifying; she softened nothing. In a small group of students, i did not dare to speak with her.

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Cristiana V. Rodrigues's avatar

Anne Sexton is one of a kind! Thank you for sharing this!!

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Corie Feiner's avatar

Yes she is.

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Corie Feiner's avatar

This poem is so sexy and true. Short pumping lines full of tenderness and wonder. Erotically divine.

Sexton was my first poet who came into my life when I was 15 years old and went to the original Poet's House in NYC that was housed in my high school. Away from the rowdy lunchroom, I sat and read her words. I still sigh after I read her powerful and vulnerable poems.

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Mara K Loving's avatar

Me too!

at 15 I was given To Bedlam and Part way back in 1974 and Annie has been with me all my life long. An astonishing poet !

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Paul McCutchen's avatar

When a man and a woman are together their souls will pass through each other than return. Leaving a small part of themselves with the person no matter how casual the encounter.

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Dian Parker's avatar

So keen. Riveting. Thanks for this.

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rKf's avatar

One of those troubling poems where one lingers only to be drawn in to the mystery that life is.

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BornAlive's avatar

wow! there are no women writing like this today. women now are all heady complaining warrior types punching at their own interior masculine selves. this woman writes the eternal truth of life. polarity. attraction.

hiero gamos.

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D.J. Jordan's avatar

TRY READING THE POETRY OF PATTI SMITH, WHO IS ALIVE TODAY. ☮️❤️

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BornAlive's avatar

i read patti's substack and have read all her books. she's a wholly different sort of writer than sexton. i'm sure they're out there,but i think anne sexton and the one who put her head in the oven were doing something very outre and dangerous for their time. that fearless female scorpio talent.

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D.J. Jordan's avatar

AND I LOVE ANNE SEXTON ☮️

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BB Borne's avatar

Wondering about Logos and what the word/name/concept represents here.

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Brendan Law's avatar

It's quite a complex Greek concept. Probably best wiki it mate

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BB Borne's avatar

I did wiki it, and saw that it refers to the natural order of the universe in a sense, and also a name for Jesus. Which leaves me still wondering what Anne was thinking.

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Brendan Law's avatar

Ah I see apologies. My interpretation of bringing the logos into the poem is to touch a deeper darker older God / universe than what we presently perceive. Back to the prime primal through the magick of sex

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Corie Feiner's avatar

I looked it up, too. It was so interesting how she used Logos as if it was a Greek God, when it was not. But what I came to was the idea of the primordial nature of creation and divinity.

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BB Borne's avatar

Yes, this fills out my experience of the poem. Thank you Brendan. Our experience as humans is a paradox of the temporal and eternal, sometimes in sync and sometimes (perhaps too often) in battle. Sex and love are true manifestations!

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Felipe Adan Lerma's avatar

wow, loved it all til the end, too bummer for me, but I love Anna Sexton, and she always seemed to remain true to her spirit ❤️🙏

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Ricard  Margineda's avatar

Congrats a nice piece. I love the simil with the sea and the sand...Just that sea and sand are not gender oriented.

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Victor Mazzucatto's avatar

hey that's naughty

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Semit Kroy Wen's avatar

To me, using “Logos” obscures what she was trying to say, shrouding it in pretentious ancient mystery. Also, after suggesting the man and woman have found god through sex, there follows a grudging complaint that god disappoints by ending it. Yet love or affection can continue thereafter until the next time, like high tide and then low tide. I will try Patti Smith - thanks for the suggestion.

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DTM's avatar

That’s hawt

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David Picariello's avatar

Blessings for Anne leaving us with a magnificent legacy.

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Michael Wright's avatar

A powerful poem. Thanks.

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vic's avatar

Wonderful

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