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I was immediately reminded of verses 153-154 from the Dhammapada’s chapter on Old Age, which read:

Through many births

I have wandered on and on,

Searching for, but never finding,

The builder of this house.

To be born again and again is suffering.

House-builder, you are seen!

You will not build a house again!

The rafters are broken,

The ridgepole destroyed;

The mind, gone to the Unconstructed,

Has reached the end of craving!

Thank you for the poem this morning. 🙏

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As close to gospel as words can be. Essentially this is all we need to know simplified into poetry. We were always the poem. Thank you Mary! 🙏❤️

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Every. Word. OF. This.

especially

"determined to do

the only thing you could do —

determined to save

the only life that you could save

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Is there ever a deep place of longing, of loss or being lost that Mary Oliver didn’t touch? I remembered this piece from her that too resonates as ‘The Journey’ is this one of a thousand mornings…

Hurricane

It didn't behave

like anything you had

ever imagined. The wind

tore at the trees, the rain

fell for days slant and hard.

The back of the hand

to everything. I watched

the trees bow and their leaves fall

and crawl back into the earth.

As though, that was that.

This was one hurricane

I lived through, the other one

was of a different sort, and

lasted longer. Then

I felt my own leaves giving up and

falling. The back of the hand to

everything.

But listen now to what happened

to the actual trees;

toward the end of that summer they

pushed new leaves from their stubbed limbs.

It was the wrong season, yes,

but they couldn't stop. They

looked like telephone poles and didn't

care. And after the leaves came

blossoms.

For some things

there are no wrong seasons.

Which is what I dream of for me.

-- Mary Oliver, A Thousand Mornings

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I don't think this one is as well known as "The Journey," but it's another one of my favorites from Mary Oliver. I think it gives such wise advice.

Mozart, for Example

By Mary Oliver, from Thirst

All the quick notes

Mozart didn’t have time to use

before he entered the cloud-boat

are falling now from the beaks

of the finches

that have gathered from the joyous summer

into the hard winter

and, like Mozart, they speak of nothing

but light and delight,

though it is true, the heavy blades of the world

are still pounding underneath.

And this is what you can do too, maybe,

if you live simply and with a lyrical heart

in the cumbered neighborhoods or even,

as Mozart sometimes managed to, in a palace,

offering tune after tune after tune,

making some hard-hearted prince

prudent and kind, just by being happy.

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Thanks you. I listened to an interview with MO on Krista Tippett's NPR. program "On Being"--near the end of MO's life and she made this observation about the difficulty and suffering of her early life.

"Well, I saved my own life, by finding a place that wasn’t in that house. And that was my strength. But I wasn’t all strength. And it would have been a very different life. Whether I would have written poetry or not, who knows? Poetry is a pretty lonely pursuit."

That observation really struck me, the world without MO's poetry would diminished. It was lovely to listen to her, she had a wonderful sturdy 'no nonsense' speaking voice.

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Excellence at its finest

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"save the only life that you could save", in other words: mend your life and allow your heart to beckon fearless again in the fog like a solitary lighthouse, and who knows, at some point maybe others will let themselves guided by the light, helping them to find the thin path among the dangerous and sharp rocks. Sensible words coming from such a sensible person. Beautiful stream of thoughts for today. Thank you 🙏

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My God, this reminds me of when I left home. If I hadn't decided to break rules and untie the strings, I'd be stuck pumping out babies for Jesus and Joseph Smith.

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Beautiful.

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Ahhhh……

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This floored me. I've loved a smattering of Mary Oliver, but hadn't encountered this one before - and it perfectly captures the ethos of my own lived experience. Just goosebumps.

That woman had an uncanny genius.

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Classic ✍️

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In healing ourselves we heal others. In healing others often we find we heal ourselves a bit ( with recharge time ). How can anyone ignore the others that beg us for healing? Once we feel the connection we always had with others their needs.

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As the years pass, I am coming more and more to understand that it is the common, everyday blessings of our common everyday lives for which we should be particularly grateful. They are the things that fill our lives with comfort and our hearts with gladness -- just the pure air to breathe and the strength to breath it.

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