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Lisa B. Martin    zihuawriter's avatar

Daring. Truthful. Passion as a borderline dangerous, necessary, hungering act of destructive-reconstructive engagement between these two beings of a certain mind and body meld. Cutting. Visceral. I appreciate you posting such a raw revealing, edgy eligy. Pow!

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Lily Prigioniero's avatar

I’m wondering what year he wrote this.. if his relationship with Silvia Plath inspired it. Stunning poem. Thanks.

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Lasita's avatar

I wondered as well.

I once went to a Ted Hughes poetry reading and afterwards was very insensitive and asked him about his relationship with Sylvia and I've regretted that question ever since.

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Solero Taylor's avatar

THE COLDEST WINTER FOR 150 YEARS {evidenced by the number of layers we wore

I'm never sure how much people know about Ted Hughes

He was married to Sylvia Plath

Who killed herself by putting her head in a gas oven

While Ted was having an affair with Assia Wevill

Who also killed herself (and their child)

by putting her head in a gas oven

probably a coincidence

like the disappearance of Pauline Reade

or John Kilbride

Keith Bennett or Lesley Ann Downey

Eddie Evans, an apprentice engineer

Ted was fond of Country pursuits

Killing, in all her ruddy particulars

He taught his daughter (by Sylvia) how to skin a badger

For example, and delighted his University chums

By roasting meat over the coal fire in his college rooms

Pembroke College, Cambridge

I don't think I'd have even broken sweat

If I'd been asked to kick the shit out of him

but I never was, and now he's dead

Measured. Marked. Cut

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Nicole N. Vespermann's avatar

Whoa...grizzly. The poem is wild, and makes me feel quite gross for having read it.

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man of aran's avatar

Grisly? Or the bear?

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Nicole N. Vespermann's avatar

Ha! Yes. Not the bear.

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Julie Dee's avatar

Don’t hold back mate😂

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Solero Taylor's avatar

Ha! I know he's a good writer - he just doesn't do it for me ....

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Julie Dee's avatar

I like the poetry but I do think he was a twat, but so are many to be fair….

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Nikolai Grozni's avatar

Clearly you don't have what it takes to read poetry and understand poets.

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Mark Larick's avatar

Please explain your method for absorbing poetry to her.

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Solero Taylor's avatar

I greatly admire what he did with MPT but I'm not a big fan of his verse. His 'roughness' is still being wheeled out as some sort of badge of authenticity. It's unnecessary. People read and understand differently. If it's any consolation I could have beaten the shit out of Larkin as well.

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Nikolai Grozni's avatar

People do read and understand differently, but a puritanic worldview and a Santa Claus morality have no place in poetry, an ancient domain preserved for mad men, spirit channelers, outcasts, shamans.

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Solero Taylor's avatar

I would describe Hughes as a deeply conservative poet . Where he stepped outside this was when he supported poetry in translation, particularly writers from Eastern Europe. Your stuff about mad men, spirit channelers, etc. is baby talk. I've no problem with writers or readers using whatever method works for them, but I would never seek to make a preserve out of it. Wallace Stevens worked in insurance.

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Elf's avatar

Sir (or ma’am) thank you. And for the poem above.

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Dian Parker's avatar

He was most certainly a bastard but looking at art for art's sake is being lost, me thinks. This is a hard hitting poem that is raw and seeking. I appreciate that.

Thanks for your wide range of offerings. I appreciate that too.

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Julie Dee's avatar

Glad someone said it😂😂

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Debra O's avatar

I find this poem authentic wild & vivid; it moved me!

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man of aran's avatar

Sound like a lovely couple!

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Kerry Bart-Raber's avatar

It wasn’t a kitchen poem thank goodness 😅

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Coco's avatar

I’d love a love like that... wistful

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Alan Abrams's avatar

Janet, he wrote that for us

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Tara Sahgal's avatar

Comparisons are odious, useless and why take sides, but I like Plath more :D Impossible to not see Ted and Daddy looming when you read her, and then if coming to Ted, it becomes impossible to forget what she said. 'The man in black with a Meinkampf look'. Ooof. Maybe it's just me!

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Charles Laster's avatar

Raw, harsh poem about obsessive desire!

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Kerry Bart-Raber's avatar

Reminds me: Gina if you loved me - you’d let me eat your brain?!

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Amanda Cooke's avatar

Holy crap, this is so good!!

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Ken, or Kenny Genku Erickson's avatar

For a moment in a former life I dated a woman (yes, it's true) whose mother had dated Sylvia Plath. For what it's worth. Shit's complicated. This poem, however, is bothersome and so, I suppose, successful in a way, if one like being bothered. I'll pass on this pesadilla.

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Northernchief's avatar

Ted Hughes, divisive as ever… but great despite all his undoubted flaws.

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